Getting Started: Safely Using Your Doll
Using your sex doll safely for the first time is all about understanding her joints, learning how her body moves, and practicing gentle, controlled handling. This guide teaches you how to move, pose, lift, and interact with your doll without causing stress or damage to her skeleton or soft materials.
How to Use the Doll Once Received?
In modern society, human beings are no longer willing to suppress their desires. They are eager to break the shackles of their sexuality and pursue free sex. The advent of sex dolls made it possible for everyone to experience this sexual happiness equally.
However, buying a sex doll is a big investment for everyone, so we want to make sure that you get the most out of it. In this blog, we’ll cover everything you need to know about using a sex doll!
Sex Doll Unboxing and Assembling
Before using the sex doll, there is one important step you need to note down. You have to be careful to unbox and assemble your sex doll properly.
Remove accessories first (wig, clothing, or extra parts).
Lift the doll carefully from the torso, not by the limbs, to avoid joint stress.
Inspect hands, feet, joints, face makeup, and openings for damage or residue.
Check head connector and wig for proper attachment and condition.
Note any factory marks or powder residue—these are normal and removable.
Preparation for Sex
Initial Cleaning and Sanitization
The post-unboxing maintenance includes thorough cleaning before the first sexual intercourse with her to remove factory residue. Pay the most attention to the part you will use the most. Avoid using sharp objects, wires, or harsh chemicals, and do everything gently.
Step 1: Take the sex doll to the bathroom and remove the oil of the doll.
To soften the doll’s body, an oil component is injected into the solid doll’s silicone, which also gives the doll an attractive aroma. Over time, the surface of the sex dolls will have oil. Therefore, sex dolls should be bathed once a week to remove oil.
Step 2: After the shower, apply ordinary baby powder to the body of the dolls.
The powder can take away the doll grease and remove the dirty things on the body. And then wipe the powder and dirt off with a wet towel. After drying the doll, pour the powder and keep the body dry and clean.
Step 3: Place your doll on a soft sofa to prevent the wear of the fingertips and other places.
How to Have Sex With Your Doll
All of our sex dolls are made of TPE and Silicone materials, which can bring you hyper-realistic sex experience. The flexible metal skeleton makes it easier for her to do many sexual poses as you want.
Once the sex doll is ready, you can have sex with her. Choose a condom for your big cock, and apply the right amount of lubricant, and then choose your favorite way to have sex with your doll.
What are the most popular ways to have sex with your doll?
1. Vaginal Sex
This is one of the most common ways people enjoy sex with love dolls. Every female sex doll has a fully functional vagina. Just like making sex with a real woman, you can position the sex doll the way you like, then you penetrate the doll and continue as you normally would. The sensation of the penis rubbing back and forth in the vagina is absolutely amazing!
For many of our dolls, you can even choose between a removable or fixed vagina. We have listed the depth of each doll vaginal opening on our website and you can select a doll that can accommodate your size.
2. Anal Sex
Anal sex is a healthy and very pleasant way of sex. There are many people who dream about anal sex. But it is difficult to find a partner willing to try, let alone enjoy the process with you. The good news is that our male and female sex dolls can realize your dream of anal sex.
TPE and Silicone material with ultra-fine detail design offer you a realistic, super tight, and intense experience. And that is guaranteed to blow your mind.
3. Oral Sex
The blowjob of sex dolls is different from that of real people. Both have advantages and disadvantages. For sex dolls, you’ll never have to worry about whether she has a vomiting reflex, making her neck stiff, or how she’ll react when you finish.
Important Notes:
1. We would recommend that you use lubricants to make your sexual experience easy and enjoyable. Always choose a water-based lubricant. Oil – or silicon-based lubricants can damage your sex dolls and cause stains.
2. Don’t apply too much lubricant to get your sex dolls sticky and messy quickly.
3. Some people prefer to take a dryer approach. For this purpose, they often use powder. This reduces friction, but produces a very different sexual
After having sex with your doll, please don’t forget to clean your sex doll. If you don’t use a condom and have cum inside of your doll, be sure to clean her anal, vaginal, and mouth openings after each use.
Best Position for Sex
Here are some of our position recommendations for starters:
- Missionary: You can replicate this position by laying your doll on its back and positioning yourself on top. This position allows for deep penetration and intimate eye contact, enhancing the feeling of connection and closeness.
- Doggy Style: To achieve this position with a sex doll, position your doll on all fours and enter from behind. Experiment with different angles and depths of penetration to find what feels most pleasurable for you.
- Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl: You can enjoy this position by positioning your doll on top of you, facing towards you for cowgirl or away from you for reverse cowgirl. This position allows for easy access to your doll’s body and provides a visual feast for the senses.
- Spooning: To enjoy spooning with your sex doll, lay on your side and position your doll behind you, with its body aligned against yours. This position allows for deep penetration while maintaining a sense of intimacy.
- Standing or Bent Over: Position your doll standing up or bent over a surface such as a bed or table, and enter from behind. This position allows for a different angle of penetration and can add excitement and novelty to your sex adventures.
Understanding Your Doll’s Skeleton & Joint System
Every sex doll contains an internal metal skeleton with joints that imitate natural human movement. Knowing how these joints work helps you avoid forcing or overstretching them.
What You Should Know
Each joint has a fixed range of motion
Some joints rotate, others only bend one direction
Movements should feel firm but smooth, never loose or “cracking”
If a joint feels stuck, change the angle—don’t apply more force
Golden rule:
👉 If it requires strength, the angle is wrong.
How to Safely Move & Handle Your Doll
Because dolls can be heavy, safe handling protects both you and the doll.
Correct Way to Lift
- Support under the thighs and lower back
- Keep her body close to your chest for balance
- Lift using your legs, not your back
- Move slowly and with a stable stance
Never do this
- Pull an arm to lift the doll
- Grab the wrist, hand, neck, or head to move
- Drag the doll by her feet
- Twist limbs while carrying
Proper handling prevents joint loosening, material tearing, and accidental drops.
Beginner-Safe Poses (Easy & Risk-Free)
These poses are ideal for new users who want to enjoy the doll without stressing the joints.
Natural sitting pose
Supported standing pose (if the doll has standing feet)
Reclined pose with back supported
Side-lying pose (gentle curve, great for photos)
Hands-on-lap pose
Knees-together feminine pose
All these positions keep joints within a natural range and avoid strain.
Keeping Your Doll’s Joints in Good Shape
Maintaining your doll’s joints is key to keeping her flexible and durable. Here’s how to care for them:
- Lubricate the Joints: Use a silicone-safe lubricant to keep the joints smooth and prevent squeaking. Avoid oil-based products.
- Fix Loose Joints: If a joint becomes loose, carefully tighten the screws or bolts, but avoid over-tightening.
- Ease Tight Joints: For stiff joints, apply a bit of lubrication for smoother movement.
- Gentle Handling: Always handle the joints gently to avoid straining or damaging them.
High-Risk Poses to Avoid
These poses can damage joints or stretch soft materials. Avoid them, especially as a beginner.
Full splits
Extreme leg spread
Overhead arm raises
Deep torso twist
Sharp backbend
Supporting weight on wrists
Hanging or carrying the doll by one limb
Forcing stiff joints to rotate
If you want dynamic or erotic posing, always respect the doll’s mechanical limits.
Interaction Tips for First-Time Sex Doll Users
Using a sex doll for the first time can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, especially for beginners. Let’s take a look at some sex doll advice to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience:
- Handle Your Doll With Care: When using a sex doll, handle it with care to prevent damage to the doll. Use supportive surfaces, be gentle with your touch, and store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
- Experiment With Positioning Techniques: Try different positions to find what feels most comfortable and pleasurable. Use pillows or supportive props to stabilize your doll, and determine which poses suit you best.
- Use Proper Lubrication: Apply water-based lubricants to reduce friction during interactions with your sex doll. Avoid oil-based products, as they can degrade the material over time.
Regulate the Temperature: Warm your sex doll before use to mimic body warmth for a more realistic experience. Allow it to cool down naturally after use to prevent damage from excessive heat. - Develop a Regular Cleaning Routine: This will keep your sex doll clean and in good condition whenever you want to play with her. Use gentle, non-abrasive cleaners, avoid harsh chemicals, and follow the manufacturer’s guidelines for cleaning and maintenance.
- Don’t Neglect Your Emotional Well-being: Remember that while a sex doll can provide physical satisfaction, it may not fulfill emotional needs. Maintain connections with real-life relationships and seek support in case of loneliness or isolation.
- Pay Attention to Privacy and Discretion: Respect the privacy of yourself and others by storing and using your sex doll discreetly. Also, consider any potential legal or social implications of owning and using a sex doll in your community.
How to Avoid Damaging Your Sex Doll
Ensuring your love doll is properly cared for is paramount. Although you may already be in the habit of maintaining it, certain areas could be neglected. Our team has worked with buyers over the years to put together basic safety tips to help prevent damage to your love doll.
These tips highlight key aspects of caring for your doll that require your attention.
Lay Your Love Doll on Her Back
Sex doll owners are recommended to place the dolls on their backs. Unlike humans, sex dolls cannot shift their weight when lying on their stomachs, which can cause pressure and damage to certain parts of their body, such as the face, joints, and chest.
If you want to change position, be careful not to push the doll – instead, support it in a way that prevents crushing. It may seem irrelevant to some, but many doll owners have inadvertently harmed their dolls this way.
Stretching Limits
When handling silicone and TPE dolls, it’s important to remember that these materials are quite flexible, but overstretching them can cause serious damage. Excessive stretching can result in tears or permanent marks on the doll’s skin, which you definitely want to avoid. Be gentle and try not to apply too much force when handling your doll to keep it in great shape.
Extreme Temperatures
Extreme temperatures are not your best friend if you want to keep your doll in good condition. The temperatures that suit you are also good for your doll, so this should be easy, so exposure to excessive heat or cold can cause damage to the material, which can lead to cracking or melting. Therefore, store your doll in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight, to avoid stains.
Unusual Positions
Avoiding awkward poses applies to both humans and sex dolls. Sex dolls are intricately crafted and not built to withstand excessive pressure or strenuous poses. Extreme poses or poses that the sex doll’s joints do not support can damage the doll’s body structure, joints, and materials.
This should also be implemented in the storage of sex dolls. Never put the doll in a box on top of which you will stack other objects. As a dutiful partner, you have to handle the doll carefully, ensuring its safety and integrity by treating it gently.
Cleaning
We trust you know that cleaning is a must, so take good care of your sex doll. Make sure to clean your doll after each use or once a month if you are not using it.
Neglect can lead to the accumulation of bacteria and other substances, potentially causing damage to the material or internal structure of the doll. Some warm water, mild soap, and a clean towel are all you need.